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SUICIDE

 

 
Suicide is ending or taking your own life.Some see suicide as a way of escaping from the problems,pain or suffering they are going through. Suicide is very common in our society, we come across the news of someone taking his or her life on a daily basis and it keeps increasing.
   There are so many things that can make someone to think of suicide which include;
  • Depression
  • Failure in school,business
  • Abuse
  • Heartbreak
There are still other reasons why one do consider suicide but few was mentioned above. The big question here is"Is Suicide an option". Suicide is not an option and will never be. Suicide can always come to your mind and that does not make you crazy,having the thought of suicide simply means you are looking for a way to escape from what you are going through.
      You might be going through things that are very hard to deal with,you might feel things will never be better, that losing something so valuable or precious is the end for you,not valued by others is the end,not being able to achieve a certain goal is the end. Before considering suicide,ask yourself is it worth taking your life?,what will happen to those that truly care about you?,is it the best solution?
    There are so many ways to tackle suicide,you can start by asking for or seeking for the help of a psychologist,doctor or counselor, talking to a family member or a friend you can rely on, calling your country's emergency numbers they will surely give you a profound solution to what you are going through.
     If someone with a suicidal thoughts talk to you about it,don't judge the person,give the person a listening ear,remember to call for help and as you are waiting for help, offer the person comfort by any means until help comes
    Remember if you need someone to talk just know I'm always available for you. You can visit my websitealdubycounseling.com for more information and to book appointment with me
     

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