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  Have you heard some married couples complain after marriage, that their spouse hardly gift them or give them money? Have you also wondered why such thing is happening and why are wives complaining more? This happens to be what most women are currently experiencing in their marriages. A survey was carried out and some of this women complaining about this issue confirmed that it wasn’t like that during their days of dating/courting. Then what changed?   How can a man be comfortable giving outsiders, friends money while your wife has a pressing need for weeks yet to be sorted out. Some even go to the extent of not allowing them to work, cutting off every channel/means they can make money. Before you give your wife money, you ask her to explain, give you details on what they need the money for while others get more from you even without explaining what the money is meant for. What of gifts… in fact that’s gist for another day. Some don’t get to receive gifts even on special,...

  It has been said countless times, campaigns has been conducted but still people care less about those going through Mental health problem. Mental Health problems happens to be the most neglected health problem in the world. What you don’t know is that, your mental health should be prioritized the same way you take care of your physical health. Some even see it as madness. See people are going through a lot in various ways, some could be stress from work, financial crises, relationship/marriage crises, low self-esteem, loss of loved ones…. And this can seriously affect them. When it starts affecting them mentally, just know they’ve started going through mental health phase. The least you could do is not to abandon them at that point, it will only make it worst. Some phase do pass if it was noticed on time and proper treatment commenced while some could be managed with drugs. One of the best first treatment someone going through this phase can get is love from people around the...

  Life is full of ups and downs same with marriages. Let me take you   down memory lane, ask yourself all through your life have things moved smoothly just the way you want it?, how many obstacles have you experience till date and how many more do you think you will experience in future. This is to say life itself is not easy. Look, marriage is a formal union, social and legal contract between two individuals that unites lives legally, economically and emotionally. This automatically makes you both ‘ONE’. Will there be obstacles?   Capital YES, will it go smoothly? Capital NO. For marriage to be enjoyed and last you need to carry each other along,   Forgive when being wronged.   Communicate often.    Give room for change. Make sure your marriage is your first priority. Teach your partner how to love you if you’re not loved the way you want. There shouldn’t be rules regarding how and when to have sex. Always be transparent to your partner. ...