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Hi Almar

I don’t need any advice or counseling I just want you to share this so that those planning to get married will be careful before choosing a life partner. My story is a long one but I hope people will patient enough to read till the end

    As I was growing up I really anticipated marriage  so much because of this I was welcoming every kind of relationship. I did not even want to study my aim was to marry a rich man and live comfortably for the rest of my life. I saw how father treated my mother so well even though he was managing he still make sure we had something to eat so I felt that all men are like that. At the age of 21 I met ex husband, I cursed the day I met him,that very day I was seeing my friend off when we noticed a very fine Jeep following us we decided to stop to if he will pass but he stopped instead when I saw I prayed so hard for him to talk to me which he did and we exchanged numbers that was how our relationship started. I got to know how rich he was so i started cutting off every other person coming for my hand in marriage good men for that matter o but I was blinded with appearance and money. We dated for a year before we got married our wedding was the talk of the town people wished they were in my shoe I also thought I have gotten all I have wanted

    After the wedding his attitude started changing two weeks in the marriage he gave me the beating of my life because dinner was not yet ready by 7pm I can never forget that day I was saved by the gateman who was later sacked. That was when I started having double mind concerning the marriage. I called my people but they encourage me to stay that he will change that if I get pregnant he will change . I took in and he indeed changed to the loving person I used to know. I gave birth to a baby girl in 2016 and this made him angry because he wanted a baby boy, the maltreatment increased, I knew if I did not leave alive, I will leave dead. There was nothing he doesn’t hit me with not minding I was nursing my child. I got so many advice to poison him but I couldn’t do I decided to run away with my child . I targeted the day he will come back with a huge sum of money because he was managing his father’s company and the day finally came when he left for work the next day I took my child and ran away I went to different state because going back home was not an option, when I settled down I  called my people to tell them what I did I did not even tell them my location. It wasn’t easy for me at first but I  Thank God for my life  now I started a business and my daughter and I are doing fine . I enquire from someone about my ex and I was told he  got married 3 months after I left to the girl he was dating while with me. It wasn’t up to 2years he killed the new wife and this was someone that gave him a male he so craved when he was with me although he has been detained that’s what suits him. 

  I’m so happy I left him and please don’t let appearance or money be the reason you’re accepting someone. Make sure the person is not a psychopath it’s very necessary 

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