How Is Your Relationship With Your Children

Parents how close are you to your children?, can they confide in you? Are you doing your duties well as a parent? Are you people working hand in hand to make sure you raise your children in the right way or is it one sided?. These are the kind of questions you need to ask yourself as a parent. Making your children confide in you is a very great way of being in your child's life and it will help you understand your child very well. It will also help you in solving an issue relating to your child when one comes up. Parenting should not be one sided, your child needs the both of you.

There are important things your children need from you as their parents, these things include;Love, Care, Confidence,Respect,Time,Affection and Patience

There are so many things happening in the world and not showing your children love and care will only endanger them to those things. I was having a counseling session with a ten years old boy that is going through depression,during the session i told him ''even if everybody despises him that his parents won't''. He told me they are never there for him,they never cared ,they all just interested in their work only. We ended up having a family counseling

Your child will bring a complain to you instead of you to look into it and take appropriate actions, you will beat them,curse them and send them out. This type of training can only make a child to start dealing things in their own way and they will blank you out of what is going on their lives and is not good.

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